Dating Scene Demographics
A location can usually tell a lot or a little about a person depending on the location itself. A grocery store for instance really can't offer a whole lot of information about an individual because we all obviously have to go to the grocery store. On the other hand, an adult toy store is geared towards a more specific audience and we can deduce a number of things about a person attending such a place.
There are exceptions to everything when meeting women
As with a lot of our articles, we always want to stress that there are exceptions to everything. If you enter an adult toy store and see others around, it doesn't necessarily mean that all of these people are sexually oriented people. But it would be reasonable to assume that most are.
Which leads us to the specifics of where to meet women. Your mate criteria will help you determine where it is that you would have most success. Generally, most people desire the basic elements of love, care, companionship, respect, etc.. And you can find these people in all different locations, from adult toy stores to libraries. But in order to maximize your potential of successfully finding a mate, you must determine where it is that you would be likely to meet women of similar lifestyle.
A way in which you can determine what type of scene would be best for you, ask yourself a few of these questions:
What are my hobbies?
For example, if you like music, or you play the guitar, you would have the most success approaching women at a concert or any other event that revolves around music. The basis for an approach is finding common ground. By determining your hobby, or any of your recognizable interests, will help you determine where you would have the most success.
What are my interests?
If you don't have any significant hobbies, then another way you can find the most most suiting location is by asking yourself what your interests are. If you're interested in sports, hanging out at sports bars, or any other location that revolves around sports would maximize your approach success.
This section of Male Dating Tips isn't totally important to your dating success. But it will definitely help you become more date-successful if you're able to target your interests through a location.
Once you have determined where you would have the most success, you can begin to target in on the individual. This is the step before approaching a female and is the most crucial. Your ability to evaluate a female through their body language isn't easily developed. It takes a lot of practice to key in on a certain female for the most success. There are several important factors that go along with the process of choosing who to approach. You will have to use process of elimination while evaluating each potential female of approach, and ultimately choose which would be most suiting for success. The factors that you will use for elimination are as follows:
- Social Environment
Who is she with? If she is with a male then you can cross her off of your list. However, if she is arguing with him, your chances of success are a slightly bit higher but are still none the less, low. If she is with a group of friends your chances of success are moderate. If she is alone your chances of success are higher opposed to any other social Environment In most instances when a person is alone in a social Environment they are more accepting of others, hence increasing approach success (in other words, hitting it off well).
- Physical Appearence
They say to never judge a book by it's cover. We agree with that to a certain extent. For example, if you're a person who hates gothic people, then try to stay away from a female who is apparently gothic! But on a deeper note, under MOST circumstances, a girl who is wearing revealing clothing it can be assumed she is at the social event to either a) look for a mate herself OR b) show off in an arrogant sense.
Most of the time females who dress revealingly are there trying to "score" themselves. If you're looking for a long meaningful relationship, approaching a woman dressed revealingly would lessen your success opposed to approaching a woman dressed humbly.
- Body Language
Assessing a person based upon their body language isn't easy. It takes practice and skill, and even when you become good at it, it still isn't a bulletproof method of assessment. But on a lighter note it can still help in the process of illumination. If you notice a female groping another male (or a female), you can easily assess that she isn't available. If she isn't showing any signs of physical response, then it can be assumed she is either bored or upset. Facial expressions are very important. You can assess whether a person is sad, lonely, upset, happy, confused, along with many other emotions, just by the expressions on their face. If a female appears to be lonely or bored, these are your best chances of approach success.
With all three of these assessment aspects in mind, you can easily determine who would be the most approach successful female. The absolute best conditions for a successful approach is a girl alone by herself reflecting emotions of boredom or loneliness. Her physical Appearance is relative to your mate criteria. Be sure to read over this several times so you can understand everything to its fullest extent. Go out and practice in public, you'll get better and better as you do it consistently.